Dad's Smokin' Asian Texas BBQ Sauce

1/2 cup dark brown sugar

1/8 cup balsamic vinegar

1/8 cup rice wine vinegar

1/8 cup blackstrap molasses

1/8 cup maple syrup

1/8 cup texas honey

1/8 cup dark corn syrup

1/2 cup dark rum, preferably Meyers

1/8 cup Asian mustard

1/2 cup Asian dark soy sauce

1/2 tablespoon liquid smoke

1 head roasted garlic

1 Texas sweet onion diced

1 tablespoon freshly diced ginger

1 tablespoon hot paprika

2 tablespoon sweet paprika

2 tablespoon pickling spice wrapped in cheesecloth

1 tablespoon hot pepper flakes

1/2 teaspoon sea salt

1/2 teaspoon freshly ground white pepper

2 tablespoons anchovy paste

2 small cans tomato paste

1 (10 ounce) jar of plum jam

1/2 cup fresh cilantro, minced

1/2 cup chives, minced